Because we DON’T find death in comfortable discussion, we often arrive at the moment unprepared. And as a result, disharmony begins even before the actual leaving. For better guidance, we offer a selection of links to sources that provide clear background information on a variety of frequently encountered issues
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https://www.legalzoom.com/articles/final-wishes
https://www.freewill.com/learn/letter-of-instruction
"Make trustworthy family members aware of this letter’s existence and review the document with your executor or trusted family member, to ensure it is understood. You don’t need a lawyer to write a letter of instruction or make changes to it if your circumstances or wishes change. However, it is important to ensure this document does not contradict any provisions set forth in a formal will, to prevent confusion.